Otherwise, you'll come across as needy and possibly even a user. Try to find something you can do for this person before asking for something else. However, if you ask over and over without doing something in return they might start avoiding your calls. The person may not expect you to reciprocate immediately after doing one favor for you. This might be for a job reference, a letter of recommendation, or an endorsement. You might say something like, 'Since you're so well respected in this field, your recommendation would mean a lot to me.' When you want a favor from someone you respect, let the person know that this is why you're coming to them. Don't ask for something that the person is paid to do unless you are willing to fork over some money or barter your own services. However, if you expect your doctor friend to give you a complete physical on personal time, you are definitely crossing the line. If you are friends with a doctor, you might ask a quick question without overstepping the boundaries. Don't tell anyone they owe this to you, or they might resent returning the favor. Just remember that unless it was stated outright that they owe you something, they doesn't have to reciprocate. You might want something from a person you've done things for in the past.

Instead of saying, 'I know you're busy, but would you mind doing this for me?' say something like, 'I just finished building a new bookshelf, and since you're such a good carpenter, would you mind taking a look at it before I put it in the library?' The first example makes it seem like you're asking the person to stop what they're doing and help you out, while the second one acknowledges their expertise. If you are asking a favor, put the request in a positive light. Would you mind coming over and listening for him? I won't be long, and I'll be happy to pick something up for you while I'm at the store.'

For example, if you need a sitter for a few minutes, you might say, 'I have to run to the store, but my baby is still sleeping. However, you don't want to come across as demanding or acting like you're entitled. Never beat around the bush when asking someone to do something for you, or the person may not get the gist of what you are trying to say.

The Spruce Home Improvement Review Board.

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